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Quiz: Are You With a Great Guy?

Love and infatuation can cloud anyone’s thinking! If you’re having doubts or mixed feelings about whether your guy is truly as great as you think he is, take our fast quiz!


1. Does your guy call you 80% of the time just to hear your voice?

A) Yes

B) No

2. Does he generally remember important things you say?

A) Yes

B) No

3. Does he ask about your passions and dreams?

A) Yes

B) No

4. Does he want to introduce you to his parents?

A) Yes

B) No

5. Does he give you compliments freely and make you feel beautiful?

A) Yes

B) No

6. Is he able and willing to share responsibility in the ups as well as the downs of your relationship?


B) No

7. Does he think it’s okay to wait to have sex?

A) Yes

B) No

8. Does he follow through with the things he says he’s going to do?

A) Yes

B) No

9) Is he open to spending time together doing things that you enjoy doing?

A) Yes

B) No

10) Is he respectful of your time and does he give you space when you need it?

A) Yes

B) No


If you answered A to most of the above questions, your guy is pretty great. Give him a big hug and a kiss the next time you see him!

If you answered B to most (or many!) of the above questions, your guy may not be as respectful of you as you deserve. The right guy will make you feel beautiful all the time for who you are and will know how to show it. Get all of our Inspired Advice on dating.

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  1. princessladk

    Posted by princessladk on April 16, 2018 at 15:50

    Answered yes to everything ^.^

  2. nonnie

    Posted by nonnie on June 24, 2013 at 15:29

    all but 2 of those were choice a for mine. we’ll have to work on the 2 i answered b eventually

  3. AllisonGrace

    Posted by AllisonGrace on November 1, 2012 at 09:58

    This quiz made me happy πŸ™‚ I have a boyfriend who loves and respects me. He’s been through really hard times and is one of the godliest men I know. What a blessing!

  4. Project Inspired

    Posted by Imarunner13 on August 15, 2012 at 13:35

    Mostly A’s!! My guy is great! Hes a super gentlemen and really loves me πŸ™‚ and i really love him back.. thanks for the quiz it was fun!! πŸ™‚

  5. Project Inspired

    Posted by margie11 on August 12, 2012 at 14:31

    I know a guy who is romantically interested in me, and he is all of these things. He is really nice and I like him. He wants to date me, but I don’t know what to do. I am only 14 and I don’t want to do anything I’ll regret.

  6. Project Inspired

    Posted by marleybob98 on July 6, 2012 at 17:19

    I answered yes to all these. I love my boyfriend so much. It’s our 3 month anniversary today. πŸ™‚

  7. RAGdoll392

    Posted by RAGdoll392 on June 23, 2012 at 21:29

    I’m 17 and have never dated anyone. A guy told me he liked me once…in 5th grade. I guess I just want to know what it feels like for a guy to love everything about me no matter what. I have my insecurities (don’t we all?) but I know I can be a whole and happy single girl. I just hope the stars align someday and I find the exact right person!!!

  8. Project Inspired

    Posted by SarahKatie on June 17, 2012 at 16:22

    I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago (or maybe he broke up with me, im not really sure what happened there..) and this quiz really helped me realize that I’m probably better off without him because he got a lot of no’s. Thank you for making this! πŸ™‚

  9. Project Inspired

    Posted by annie1by7 on May 15, 2012 at 15:07

    My guy is A for all of these. We aren’t actually dating (we’re in middle school, if we really like each other, we can wait), but he has told me he likes me in person and I like him back. He’s the godliest, kindest guy I know (after my dad). So I’m happy πŸ™‚

  10. Project Inspired

    Posted by chevygirl181 on May 13, 2012 at 21:18

    I had been praying for years for a great guy and i moved to my current town. I met a guy and he is a strong Christian. He introduced my family to the church we are attending now. He doesn’t even know anything about sex. I was talking to him about anti-Cosmo and he didn’t even know what Cosmo was. When I showed him at the store he was in utter shock. He says he honestly doesn’t think about things like that. His mom is amazing and is like a second mother to me. I thank God for him every day… And… I answered all A’s πŸ™‚

  11. Project Inspired

    Posted by HisAngel16 on May 9, 2012 at 17:44

    There’s was only one question that I answered B to. My guy is the best!!!

  12. Project Inspired

    Posted by Berrong.T on April 24, 2012 at 19:54

    I got mostly A’s, but I’m still worried about the relationship. We have been together almost six months, and we have had sex before, and sometimes I feel like that’s the only reason we are together. We talk about stuff together, and talk about the future, but never talk about being in each other’s lives in the future. I’m confused as what to do, as well as the fact that I haven’t asked him to be my bf, and he hasn’t asked me to be his gf, but whenever someone says ya’ll make a great couple, or refer to one of us as the others gf or bf, neither one of us deny it. I don’t know what to make of our relationship, but I feel like I’m falling for him, and that’s scary to me, I’m not used to the feeling.

  13. Project Inspired

    Posted by Jesscka87 on April 21, 2012 at 18:06

    Just recently I was with a guy who I thought was good. Then about four months into dating him I completly renewed my relationship with Jesus Christ. He seemed cool with it and even said it inspired him. As I kept reading my bible I realized more and more the mistakes I was making in my life, namely one being sexual relations outside of marriage. After thinking about it and even talking to my mom about it I decided to make a commitment to God that I would no longer have sex until I was married. I expressed this decision to my boyfriend and two hours later I was single. He still has not removed me from his facebook page so when I returned to facebook after being absent for lent, I saw his page was filled with quite a few posts mocking Jesus. I knew right then and there that I was right to let him leave. I decided then that any man I dated in the future would have to truly be a man for God or he would not be worthy of dating me. And any guy who is willing to wait till marriage I know will truly care for me and not just my body. P.S. it was actually my commitment to abstinence that brought me to this website, which I am so grateful it did πŸ™‚

  14. pinkpenguin318

    Posted by pinkpenguin318 on April 20, 2012 at 15:08

    I have a great guy friend…and I’m glad we’re just really close friends. I can say “yes” to most of those questions–we both enjoy doing the same things. I value our friendship together and cannot wait for summer so we can hang out more. :3

  15. dancing4Jesus

    Posted by dancing4Jesus on April 20, 2012 at 09:42

    I am so blessed and i dont even deserve the guy God has blessed me with.Were both strong christians and Christ is truly the center of our relationship. Most people tell us its foolish to tell each other that “i love you” since so many people end up taking it back and regretting it, especially since were son young ( im 14 and hes 13) but our 1 year anniversy is coming up and we’ve already talked about how one day we will hopefully get married and we pray for each other each and every day and he even told me that God gave him a sighn that i was the one for him and to be honest..Gods given me a couple sighns lol

  16. Project Inspired

    Posted by on April 20, 2012 at 01:00

    Also, why isn’t one of the questions if he loves Jesus Christ? I think that is the most important one.

    • Shylittlemouse

      Posted by Shylittlemouse on April 20, 2012 at 12:32

      I saw that too. If you see one of my comments I asked about that.
      I have my own list that I put the guys I like up against, and the top thingy is: Must be a Christian growing in his walk with the Lord.

  17. Project Inspired

    Posted by on April 20, 2012 at 00:33

    Why are they encouraging kissing? Isn’t kissing considered a lustful sin?

  18. risingsunsets

    Posted by risingsunsets on April 19, 2012 at 22:01

    I could answer yes (and more!) to all but the first, and because my wonderful boyfriend does not have enough minutes on his phone to pull that off. I am truly blessed.

  19. Paris

    Posted by Paris on April 19, 2012 at 21:53

    I can’t wait till I find that guy. I hope all of my answers are A! Lol.

  20. Project Inspired

    Posted by HNiji on April 19, 2012 at 19:02

    But what if his parents are racist…?

  21. Project Inspired

    Posted by 1_artist on April 19, 2012 at 16:50

    Well, I just met my guy about two months ago, but I think he gets all A’s. I knew he was great! I hope it lasts, and I hope he’s the right one! He really seems like it! But I don’t want to rush things, or count my chickens before they hatch, so to speak. (I’m 18 and he’s 27 — I don’t think age matters that much, but more important things like maturity and compatibility, etc.) Believe me, I had my doubts about him, I even confronted him about them, but I learned and know for sure now that he’s a very nice, sweet guy.

  22. Shylittlemouse

    Posted by Shylittlemouse on April 19, 2012 at 13:36

    Oh, and I didn’t notice the most important question on here.
    “Is he a Christian?”

  23. Shylittlemouse

    Posted by Shylittlemouse on April 19, 2012 at 13:35

    Aww, my guy fit just about everything. Except I wasn’t sure if he wants to introduce me to his mom, because, well, that’s never come up.

  24. Melissa218

    Posted by Melissa218 on February 4, 2012 at 12:39

    I have a question for anyone who wants to answer-
    I have this really close guy friend that I like actually. I’m not dating him though. How do I tell if he likes me back? He already does most of the things above.

    • Project Inspired

      Posted by HNiji on April 19, 2012 at 19:07

      I’ve been though this before and I have to say: you should do it! If he does what stated above, he probably does!

    • Champ2343

      Posted by Champ2343 on April 19, 2012 at 15:15

      Just ask God if He wants you to date that guy. If not, then Hod will give you the right man in your life. πŸ™‚

  25. Posted by on September 5, 2011 at 16:17

    I thank God for sending me a guy who, in the above quiz, got a huge A for every question! πŸ™‚ We’re both strong Christians and are definitely waiting until we get married to have sex. He gets made fun of (a LOT) for not sleeping with me, but he has said so many times that he knows, no matter what anyone says, that it’s better to wait. Your virginity is a gift; a gift only for your future husband! And if you give it to someone else before marriage, you can’t get it back.

    • Project Inspired

      Posted by AnnaDon on April 19, 2012 at 16:40

      That’s great, Leah! Sometimes I feel like I’m not going to meet any nice guys and Ill be single all my life (which isn’t a bad thing but I sooo want to be a wife and mother) and just hearing about men like that makes me more hopeful!

  26. Posted by on July 12, 2011 at 12:27

    I’m practically in love with this guy, but I don’t know if he likes me!!!!! It stinks!! I can’t stop thinking about him…. I don’t want to get too attached if he won’t like me in the end…i’m praying that God will tell me if the guy’s right!!!!

    • Project Inspired

      Posted by AnnaDon on April 19, 2012 at 16:36

      If you’re just starting 7th grade, you’re waaay to young to be that serious about a boy. Please don’t get too involved with boys so soon. It makes your girlhood really rough to be so serious about guys.

      • Project Inspired

        Posted by TheMouseLover on October 1, 2012 at 20:35

        well, honestly, i started datin my Wonderful bf at the end of 7th grade (9 out of 10 on this thing, just the calling one b because we dont usually ahve time to call eachother, were either texting or talking face to face) and here we are, 1 year and a half (today actually! Its our 18 month anniversary! eep!) and were still going strong. If its meant to be, you can find mr right in middle school, but make sure you know that he is right for you, or else, like maggielouh said (my name’s maggie toooo! high five) its completely pointless. God has told me that He gave me patrick for a reason πŸ™‚

      • Project Inspired

        Posted by on April 22, 2012 at 12:38

        Middle school dating: don’t do it. It is seriously a waste of time. Honestly, if you really like this guy, get to know him better and wait on it for a while. I dated this amazing guy in middle school but we were both so immature that things got complicated and now we rarely talk. We might have been together for a lot longer if we had waited.

    • Posted by Nicole on July 12, 2011 at 14:39

      God will show you! If you’re still young, I don’t think God has shown you Mr. Right yet!

      • Posted by on July 14, 2011 at 08:45

        i am entering 7th grade, but this guy is like everythig i want!!!!!!!!!!! he is christian and he is the purest guy i know!!!! im hoping he might ask me out!!!

  27. Posted by on July 7, 2011 at 17:08

    I’m so glad I found this site. It’s made me think harder about my decisions and given great advice.

    I know I’m with a great Christian guy…but seeing he’s 100% just made it even more certain. I thank God for him every day…I’m so lucky to have found him early.

    Girls: If you haven’t found a guy like this, don’t give up… don’t settle. God wants you to be completely happy with a guy that loves and respects you for you! I’m happy I found someone who loves Jesus as much as I do. πŸ™‚

    • Posted by Nicole on July 7, 2011 at 21:41

      That’s so amazing Maddie! you are blessed. And that’s good that you thank God everyday! πŸ™‚

  28. Posted by on July 5, 2011 at 18:28

    I pray that the right guy for me is mostly A in the poll thingy.

    • Project Inspired

      Posted by cookiegirl17 on April 19, 2012 at 16:16

      The right guy will be! If he isn’t, he probably isn’t the one God has picked out for you. Just wait for God’s timing. I know it gets tedious sometimes, but just keep focusing on your love for Him and He’ll send you a man when it’s right =]

  29. Posted by on June 6, 2011 at 16:29

    thank you Nicole! πŸ™‚ it really helps to have an outside opinion!

  30. Posted by on June 5, 2011 at 16:03

    i have never had a bf before, but i do have a great guy friend that seems like he wants to be more. My problem is that i dont think he is a christian, although he does call himself catholic. Ive had a few conversations with him about my faith and he seems very interested but not in a sense that he actually understands as if he too was a believer. I would really like to go out with him because he is the kindest & most genuine guy i know, even among my christian friends. He also has told me that i am the kind of girl he would hope to marry someday. how can I say no when he seems so sincere??? any advice would be very much appreciated. Also, i am entering my last year of high school so i feel like it wouldnt last anyway. i keep going back and forth with myself…

    • Posted by Nicole on June 5, 2011 at 18:05

      Hey Juliana- in my opinion, I wouldn’t go out with him but stay friends with him. You’re leaving high school right now, and what would happen is you both like each other, get in a rushed- relationship probably involving sex, and then the relationship is over because you both go off to different colleges and you will regret sleeping with him. I know you might not have that in mind, but even if you don’t sleep with him, if you get too emotionally involved with him you’ll be sad when it’s over and it’s not worth it. I hope this helps!

  31. Posted by on May 29, 2011 at 16:57

    I feel sooo blessed. I answered yes to all of these things. I truly have a great boyfriend who always listens, always tells me I’m beautiful, and always sticks to his morals. I’m glad God blessed me so much πŸ™‚

    • Project Inspired

      Posted by JesusGirl95 on November 28, 2012 at 20:39

      Me too! It’s so amazing how God can make things fall together so well! πŸ™‚

    • Posted by Nicole on May 29, 2011 at 21:09

      Yay! That makes me so happy to hear. You ARE blessed!

  32. Posted by on May 29, 2011 at 11:43

    I have no guy…

    *forever alone*

    • Posted by on November 12, 2011 at 21:57

      Love will find its way to your heart. God Almighty will find Mr. Right if you let Him direct your path! πŸ™‚

    • Posted by Nicole on May 29, 2011 at 21:12

      No you aren’t Laura- Don’t you worry the right man will come into your life in the future- God will make it happen!

  33. Posted by on May 29, 2011 at 09:35

    my guy is kinda a wimp … but he’s in love with me :/ I want to be more in love with him … but I feel like HES more in love with me than i am with him.

    • Posted by on November 12, 2011 at 21:56

      I can relate but true love does not rush; he will not force you to love him. Your love for each other should be equal. I personally think generally everyone should make sure he could be the one before falling in love…Hope that helped! πŸ™‚

    • Posted by on October 23, 2011 at 09:54

      Sounds like my bestie’s boyfriend.

    • Posted by on October 23, 2011 at 09:52

      Yes to all of them except he never calls me unless I call him first and we’re making plans. However, we’re in a very unique situation and he CAN’T call me except under those circumstances, so I guess I’ll have to wait til we’re out of this situation to know the real answer to that.

      • KBP98

        Posted by KBP98 on November 29, 2012 at 20:17

        In that type of situation. Sucks a lot doesn’t it?